Lover skills

Excel in bed and become an expert lover! Learn the skills needed to keep a partner satisfied and hungry for more - take your sexual experience to the next level!

There are many factors involved in becoming a great lover. We first need to understand our own bodies and what excites us, and then to develop greater knowledge of our partner’s. Being a great lover does not mean ‘lasting for hours’ or having a great body. It’s a subtle combination of touch, communication, knowledge and confidence, and it’s very easily learnt. It is about treating a partner with absolute respect and adoration; to be in sync with how they feel, and to create intimacy and belonging.

I will help you to unravel the mystery of sex and reveal the tips and tricks of great kissing, amazing foreplay and unbelievable sex. These are skills that require nothing more than the ability to know a partner’s mind and understand what arouses them and why. If you feel under confident about sex or just don’t have the experience you crave, then I will set you on the path to being an amazing lover!

Sexual Assertiveness

Do you ever get pushed into sex or feel like you are not getting everything you would like from the experience? Discover how to create true intimacy and become sexually confident by expressing your sexual needs and wants assertively.

Being sexually confident is closely linked to being sexually assertive. Knowing our wants and desires is a hugely attractive trait and learning how to express those wishes with a potential date will create greater intimacy and a better connection in future. Together, we will examine our preconceptions around sex and delve deeper in order to uncover what your desires are. This will give you the confidence to face difficult conversations about sex, manage expectations with a partner, learn how to initiate sexual contact and build intimacy.

We will examine our preconceptions around sex and delve deeper in order to uncover what your desires are. This will give you the confidence to face difficult conversations about sex, manage expectations with a partner and learn how to initiate sexual contact and build intimacy.

The "G-spot" could have been called the Whipple Tickle

Sexual Shyness & Shame

Uncovering your shyness and sexual shame will enable you to accept and enjoy your own sexuality and seek out the sexual desires and pleasures you enjoy

Shame is an often felt, but rarely discussed emotion, which affects us all. It can break down our confidence, rip away our self-worth and make us feel small. Shame around sex and sexual shyness inhibits our relationships and makes it almost impossible to take the courageous steps that are needed to find a partner.

In a thoughtful and understanding environment, we will uncover what shame is, how to lessens it’s effects, and how to cure sexual shyness in the bedroom. If you are afraid to either make the first move or ask for what you want in bed then allow us to help you develop into an assertive and desirable lover.

Understanding Female Types

What type of partner are you looking for? Time to work out exactly what you want from your relationship future and what your soulmate looks like.

The world is full of so many different people, but we often forget this when endlessly flicking through dating sites. We tend to focus on people’s hair colour, eyes, or height – but what we really need is someone who shares the same a similar world view as us as a foundation for a lasting future

Together we will examine what your relationship future could be by asking which ‘deal breakers’ or non-negotiables are important to you, and identifying personality types and traits that suit you the best. My intention is to leave you with a vision of an ideal partner based on the sound information you will have gained through self-reflection and considered decision making.

Knowing our destination is important, and with this is mind, you’ll soon be planning the route to an amazing relationship!

The Romans were big fans of kissing and used three different words to describe it - osculum, basium, saviolum - the 'osculum' being a greeting kiss, the 'saviolum', equivalent to a modern-day French Kiss

The Art of Flirting

Become a great flirt and learn how to charm and influence people. Flirting's a great way to let someone know you're interested and to test the waters before making a move!

What is flirting and how can it get me a date? If you shy away from flirting because you fear possible rejection or don’t have the confidence, you’ll love this experience. It has everything you need to get you back on track to becoming a first-class flirt!

If you’ve avoided parties and social engagements or stopped yourself from talking to that girl or boy you really like, you’ll appreciate the gems that make my tried and trusted advice sparkle. With an in-depth analysis of body language and tips on how to spot potential people to flirt with you’ll soon be flirting all around town.

Develop Self Esteem

Want to become a confident, self-assured and courageous person? We can develop your self-esteem and take your love life to the next level!

Lack of self-esteem can really limit us when dating. After all, not having the courage or confidence to approach someone you are attracted to or send a message on a dating site puts an immediate end to finding someone to love. A high level of self-esteem is a seriously attractive quality, and despite our reservations, it’s very easy to cultivate.

I have a whole host of confidence-boosting tools, tricks and practical strategies to pass on, that you can start using immediately. I’ll uncover what’s holding you back, and put tried and tested methods in place to help you overcome your limiting beliefs and behaviours. If there is one thing you can do to improve your chances in love, it’s developing greater self-esteem and confidence – so this is the perfect time to start finding your true love potential!

A woman's libido peaks during ovulation

Personal Makeover

Want to re-invent your personal style but don't know how to do it? Learn how to accentuate your positives through clothing, hairstyles and perfect grooming.

Time for a makeover! The way we look often affects the way we think about ourselves. If we don’t groom and care for our bodies, it can be easy to feel unhappy and pessimistic about our dating futures. We can easily fall into a trap of thinking we are too ‘fat’ or too ‘ugly to find someone.

Of course, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, and if can we take steps to cultivate a personal style and grooming regime, we can easily reveal our sexy and confident true selves. With your personal makeover, I will look at body types, hairstyles, and personal grooming to set you well on the path to creating an irresistible, energetic version of you!

Practical Sex Training

Lacking sexual experience can feel difficult to talk about, and finding an understanding partner to have sex with can feel very challenging. Personal sex training could be the answer to help overcome issues of sexual confidence and a lack of sexual knowledge.

Practical sex training is provided by an outside organisation I work with closely. I am happy to refer you if you feel it would be of benefit and to meet with you and your practice sex partner before and after sessions to advise on progress.

Practical sex training (or ‘sex surrogacy’) is a well-accepted sex education technique in many countries—including Holland, Israel, and the United States—and it involves having an intimate sexual encounter with a professional practice sex partner.

It can help to alleviate fears around sex and performance, and can often simply involve kissing and foreplay. Practising intimacy with someone with specific training and knowledge of sexual difficulties can be a gentle and compassionate way to increase your confidence and integrate sex into your life.

Germans used the word Nauchkuss to describe all our previous kisses that have slipped out of memory