Sexual Shyness & Shame

Uncovering your shyness and sexual shame will enable you to accept and enjoy your own sexuality and seek out the sexual desires and pleasures you enjoy

Shame is an often felt, but rarely discussed emotion, which affects us all. It can break down our confidence, rip away our self-worth and make us feel small. Shame around sex and sexual shyness inhibits our relationships and makes it almost impossible to take the courageous steps that are needed to find a partner.

In a thoughtful and understanding environment, we will uncover what shame is, how to lessens it’s effects, and how to cure sexual shyness in the bedroom. If you are afraid to either make the first move or ask for what you want in bed then allow us to help you develop into an assertive and desirable lover.

Lover skills

Excel in bed and become an expert lover! Learn the skills needed to keep a partner satisfied and hungry for more - take your sexual experience to the next level!

There are many factors involved in becoming a great lover. We first need to understand our own bodies and what excites us, and then to develop greater knowledge of our partner’s. Being a great lover does not mean ‘lasting for hours’ or having a great body. It’s a subtle combination of touch, communication, knowledge and confidence, and it’s very easily learnt. It is about treating a partner with absolute respect and adoration; to be in sync with how they feel, and to create intimacy and belonging.

I will help you to unravel the mystery of sex and reveal the tips and tricks of great kissing, amazing foreplay and unbelievable sex. These are skills that require nothing more than the ability to know a partner’s mind and understand what arouses them and why. If you feel under confident about sex or just don’t have the experience you crave, then I will set you on the path to being an amazing lover!

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Sexual Assertiveness

Do you ever get pushed into sex or feel like you are not getting everything you would like from the experience? Discover how to create true intimacy and become sexually confident by expressing your sexual needs and wants assertively.

Being sexually confident is closely linked to being sexually assertive. Knowing our wants and desires is a hugely attractive trait and learning how to express those wishes with a potential date will create greater intimacy and a better connection in future. Together, we will examine our preconceptions around sex and delve deeper in order to uncover what your desires are. This will give you the confidence to face difficult conversations about sex, manage expectations with a partner, learn how to initiate sexual contact and build intimacy.

We will examine our preconceptions around sex and delve deeper in order to uncover what your desires are. This will give you the confidence to face difficult conversations about sex, manage expectations with a partner and learn how to initiate sexual contact and build intimacy.

Sex & Porn Addiction

Change your thinking around sex and porn to create a happy and healthy sex life and find true intimacy and connection with a partner.

Are you worried about your sexual activities? Perhaps you regularly use porn sites and think it might be interfering with your real-life relationships. I have seen a sharp increase in the number of people actively engaged in these sexual behaviours in recent years and have helped many overcome issues and concerns related to this.

Chat rooms, porn, BDSM, and fetishism, amongst others, can create unhealthy environments in which to build relationships. There is often shame and secrecy around these taboos subjects, and it easy to feel alone but there are many ways to resolve these issues and create a healthy, fun and exciting sex life.

By learning about sex and porn addiction and how the brain is wired for sexual activity you can uncover the underlying reasons for these seemingly inescapable vices, and work through some practical tools and techniques to reset your thinking about sex.

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Develop Self Esteem

Want to become a confident, self-assured and courageous person? We can develop your self-esteem and take your love life to the next level!

Lack of self-esteem can really limit us when dating. After all, not having the courage or confidence to approach someone you are attracted to or send a message on a dating site puts an immediate end to finding someone to love. A high level of self-esteem is a seriously attractive quality, and despite our reservations, it’s very easy to cultivate.

I have a whole host of confidence-boosting tools, tricks and practical strategies to pass on, that you can start using immediately. I’ll uncover what’s holding you back, and put tried and tested methods in place to help you overcome your limiting beliefs and behaviours. If there is one thing you can do to improve your chances in love, it’s developing greater self-esteem and confidence – so this is the perfect time to start finding your true love potential!